Lilith in Aries
Black Moon Lilith is read as what you refuse to apologise for. In Aries that is anger and appetite: a directness other people have tried to talk you out of, which does not go away when they do.
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What is my Lilith sign?
What you refuse to apologise for. Enter your birth details below and the answer is computed from the Swiss Ephemeris, the same data professional software uses.
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We calculate the mean Black Moon Lilith, which spends about nine months in a sign. The osculating version swings by up to a whole sign and is not the one usually meant by the name.
Lilith through the twelve signs
Lilith in Taurus
What is not apologised for is pleasure and possession. Associated with an unembarrassed appetite for comfort and for the body, and with a refusal to be made ashamed of wanting things.
Lilith in Gemini
What is not apologised for is saying it. Associated with a tongue that will not be managed, an appetite for the forbidden subject, and resistance to being told which questions are not asked.
Lilith in Cancer
What is not apologised for is need. Associated with a refusal to perform self-sufficiency, and with a fierceness about the people and the place you have claimed as yours.
Lilith in Leo
What is not apologised for is wanting to be looked at. Associated with a refusal to be modest for anybody else's comfort, and with a temper about being overlooked.
Lilith in Virgo
What is not apologised for is the standard. Associated with a refusal to call something fine when it is not, and with a fastidiousness other people read as being difficult.
Lilith in Libra
What is not apologised for is the demand for fairness. Associated with a refusal to keep the peace at any price, and with a charm that is not the same thing as agreement.
Lilith in Scorpio
What is not apologised for is intensity. Associated with a refusal to make desire or grief presentable, and with an instinct for whatever somebody is carefully not saying.
Lilith in Sagittarius
What is not apologised for is the opinion. Associated with a refusal to hold the acceptable belief, and with a bluntness that reliably arrives before the tact does.
Lilith in Capricorn
What is not apologised for is ambition. Associated with a refusal to pretend not to want the position, and with a lasting wariness of anybody who suggests you know your place.
Lilith in Aquarius
What is not apologised for is difference. Associated with a refusal to be normalised, and with a coolness towards any group that asks for conformity as the price of entry.
Lilith in Pisces
What is not apologised for is the retreat. Associated with a refusal to be fully accounted for, and with an inner life that is not available for inspection.
One placement is not a chart
A lilith sign is one line of about forty in a birth chart, and reading it alone is how astrology gets its reputation for being vague. The full chart is free and takes the same three details you have just entered.