⚹ Sextile

Venus sextile Black Moon Lilith

The refusal is attractive. Associated with self-possession, and with being wanted for the part that was supposed to be hidden.

Angle
60°
Orb used
±4°
Type
Soft
Bodies
♀ ⚸

What these two are about together

Worth and what will not be made acceptable, which the tradition treats as the central Lilith pairing and also the one most often written about badly.

What a sextile does

A sextile is traditionally read as opportunity rather than event. The two planets are in compatible elements and can work together easily, but the tradition is specific that a sextile describes something available rather than something that arrives. It is the aspect most often described as a door that is unlocked and still shut.

How it reads

The refusal is attractive. Associated with self-possession, and with being wanted for the part that was supposed to be hidden.

In practice

Reads as ease that is not automatic. Where a trine tends to be used without thinking, a sextile tends to be noticed and then either taken up or left alone.

What to watch for

Nothing happening. A sextile that goes unused is the most common way this aspect is experienced, and it is not a failure of the aspect.

The two planets

Venus: Values, attraction and what you find beautiful

Black Moon Lilith: What you will not apologise for

Venus and Black Moon Lilith at other angles

Find this in your own chart

A reading like this only tells you what the pairing is associated with. Whether Venus and Black Moon Lilith actually make this angle in your chart depends on your birth date, time and place.